I’ve skipped my evening
tea, gave up walk, ignored phone calls, sacrificed my favorite TV shows, and
missed the sunset seen from my room. And here, in my little room, I keep writing
this post, all happy. It’s all about one of the most beautiful episodes of my
life, my little life I had lived 13 years back.
It was in 1999. So to say. I
was, then, studying in Class VII at Yebilaptsa MSS, a remote boarding school in
Zhemgang. I’ll tell you…it’s all so sweet, so short, and unassumingly strange.
I was a good boy. Disciplined. Excellent in
studies. Also, active in extra-curricular activities. Ahem, I had earned many
admirers amongst school girls. Seriously, he-he. Many times, uh, I received letters
from them, even from the school’s hottest girls. I was a charming, cool, and damn-less, they would say.
But I had no idea of what love
is. I was, more tellingly, too young to understand love and being in a
relationship. I had felt that there’s no such feeling called love. Not in this
world. Ever. At least, not for me. My priority was to excel in studies and do
well in life.
Well, I had a close friend
of mine. Yeah, a girl. She, I dare say, was a fair, gorgeous and smart girl. I’d
spend my time, mostly, with her. During intervals, we’d always meet and talk,
in fact, nothing significant in particular. But we’d just love to do that.
We’d help each other in our
homework, assignments. Just before exams and on our birthdays, we’d exchange
cards and gifts. She’d share her parcels (packaged foods or groceries) with me.
During the mealtimes, she would bring me ezey.
In the evenings, after our
class, we’d walk by the school gardens. Hand-in-hand. Occasionally, she’d pluck
marigold and give it to me. A few times, she had surprised me with red roses. But
no, no, we’re good friends only…yes, yes, very close friends.
And I’m just going to very candid
and honest. Ermm…when I fell sick I’d write her letters talking about my health
and my hunger for meeting her again. So badly. I used to experience an empty
feeling in her absence. So you guess now. Is it love? But I had felt that there
was never any feelings for her. She was only a close friend. Nothing more.
Our annual exams was just
one week to come. It’s early November, and this time of year in Zhemgang was
particularly elusive as days getting bewitchingly shorter and shorter, and
colder and colder. Students were seen busy preparing for the exams. Some were
busy exchanging wishing cards. Others were just excited to go home for the long
winter vacation.
It’s this time, one icy
morning, two of us were summoned in the principal’s office. As soon as we entered
his office, he barked at us, “Are you two lovers?” I went blank; stood there, flabbergasted.
I didn’t know how to react. A strict disciplinarian, he was a voice of god,
never to be questioned or challenged.
He told me to bend down. Then,
he ruthlessly smacked on my back with a cane stick. 13 times, I still remember.
My breath stopped, literally, and I was dead for a moment. He warned me, “If I again
hear or see you two together, I will expel you out of this school!’
As I left his office, I heard
another eerie and frightening noise of brutal smacking. It was followed by an agonizing
sharp cry. Alas, she was on the receiving end.
Our beautiful friendship was
lost in a single explosive moment. After that damaging experience, we never
met. Exams came and over, yet we didn’t meet. We packed our luggage to go home
for vacation, yet we daren’t meet. It was a draconian and unfair farewell, I
must say.
I never met her in my life as
I had so fervently hoped and desired. I tried to trace her whereabouts, but all
in vain. She had completely disappeared out of my life for the last 13 years.
But a little over month
before, I met her. Yes, here in Thimphu. You never know how excited I’ve
become. I took her in a cozy restaurant to treat her cup of coffee. More than
that, I wanted to talk to her. First shock: She is married and has a kid. Damn!
As we kept sipping on hot
coffee, we asked and talked about our personal life, our family and career.
Then, our conversation tuned into our childhood. We reminisced and talked about
it for so long, for hours. It appeared as if we wanted, so badly, to turn back hands
of time and start our life together all over again.
Our coffee over and as we
moved out from the restaurant, she told me this. Second shock: “If you had
proposed me that time, I would certainly accept you!” And I replied her, “Had
you been still single today, I’d come to you with a marriage proposal!”
Instantly, she choked up,
the tears finding her. Her tears mixed with the black mascara and foundation on
her face. As I watched her, I realized something. I had tears too. They were
there, in my eyes. And I’m not sure why. My tears surprised me. I tried to lift
my head up, with the hope that I could prevent it from flowing down my cheeks.
I couldn’t.
Finally, I let the tears
plummet down my cheeks. But this crying, bursting out tears was so freeing, so
relieving. And this reminded me one important aspect of life. Letting go! Like
the tears flowing down, in life we’ve to let go some people or forget our past even
though how beautiful or reverberating they appear. Life is, after all, the end
of one era, the beginning of another.
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